Watchtower February 17 through February 23
[For the opening song before the Public Talk, select the song number announced, on the 'Sing Out Joyfully' Page or click here]
Watchtower Study Article 50 [Press play below to hear the MP3 Watchtower audio]
Song 135 Jehovah’s Warm Appeal. “Be Wise, My Son” Based on Proverbs 27.11
1. Young man and young woman,
do give your heart to me.
My foe who now taunts me
will then be made to see.
Your youth and devotion
to me you freely give;
You show all the world
that for me you really live.
Beloved son and precious daughter,
Be wise and make my heart rejoice,
That out of your own heart you serve me,
And offer praise by your own choice.
2. Rejoice and take pleasure
in giving me your all,
And though you may stumble,
I’ll raise you if you fall.
No matter who fails you
or proves to be untrue,
Take comfort in knowing
I’ll always cherish you.
Beloved son and precious daughter,
Be wise and make my heart rejoice,
That out of your own heart you serve me,
And offer praise by your own choice. [End of Song. Press Play below to play this song with Audio Description]
Parents. Help Your Child to Strengthen His Faith (February 17 through 23)
“Prove to yourselves the good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” Romans 12.2.
[Box] Focus.
Practical suggestions on how parents can maintain good communication with their child and help him to strengthen his faith in God and in the Bible. [End of box]
Question 1 and 2. How should parents respond to a child who asks questions about our Bible-based beliefs?
1. Many would agree that being a parent is a full-time job. If you are a parent with a young child, we commend you for working hard to build strong faith in him.
[Quotation] Deuteronomy 6.6 and 7: These words that I am commanding you today must be on your heart, 7 and you must inculcate them in your sons and speak of them when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road and when you lie down and when you get up. [End Quotation]
As your child grows up, he may begin asking serious questions about our Bible-based beliefs, including the Bible’s moral standards.
2. At first, you may be worried about your child’s questions. You might even view such questions as a step backward regarding his faith. In reality, however, growing children need to ask questions in order to form their own convictions.
[Quotation] 1 Corinthians 13.11: When I was a child, I used to speak as a child, to think as a child, to reason as a child; but now that I have become a man, I have done away with the traits of a child. [End Quotation]
So there is no reason to be fearful. You may view all sincere questions your child raises about our beliefs as opportunities to help him to develop his thinking ability.
Question 3. What will we consider in this article?
3. In this article, we will discuss how parents can help their child or children (1) develop their own personal convictions, (2) build appreciation for the Bible’s moral standards, and (3) defend their beliefs. As we do, we will also consider positive aspects of children’s questions and some family activities that may give parents the opportunity to talk about Christian beliefs.
Help Your Child Develop His Convictions
Question 4. What questions might a child have, and why?
4. Christian parents recognize that faith in God is not something a child inherits. You were not born with faith in Jehovah. That is also true of your child. Over time a child may wrestle with such questions as: ‘How do I know that there is a God? Can I really believe what the Bible says?’ In fact, the Bible actually encourages us to use our “power of reason” and to “make sure of all things.”
[Quotation] Romans 12.1: Therefore, I appeal to you by the compassions of God, brothers, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, a sacred service with your power of reason. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] 1 Thessalonians 5.21: Make sure of all things; hold fast to what is fine. [End Quotation]
How, though, can you help your child to strengthen his faith?
Question 5. What can parents do to help their child develop faith in the Bible? (Romans 12.2)
5. Encourage your child to prove the truth to himself. (Read Romans 12.2) When your child asks questions, take the opportunity to show him how to find the answers by using research tools, such as the Watch Tower Publications Index and the Research Guide for Jehovah’s Witnesses. In the latter, under the subject “The Bible,” he might look up “Inspired by God” to find evidence that the Bible is not just a good book written by men. Rather, it is “the word of God.”
[Quotation] 1 Thessalonians 2.13: Indeed, that is why we also thank God unceasingly, because when you received God’s word, which you heard from us, you accepted it not as the word of men but, just as it truthfully is, as the word of God, which is also at work in you believers. [End Quotation]
For example, he could research the ancient Assyrian city of Nineveh. In the past, some Bible critics claimed that the city of Nineveh never existed. But by the 1850’s, the ruins of this city were unearthed, proving the Bible’s account to be accurate.
[Quotation] Zephaniah 2.13 through 15: He will stretch out his hand toward the north and destroy Assyria, And he will make Nineveh desolate, as dry as a desert. 14 Herds will lie down within her, all sorts of wild animals. Both pelican and porcupine will spend the night among her pillar capitals. A voice will sing in the window. There will be devastation at the threshold; For he will expose the cedar panels. 15 This is the proud city that was sitting in security, That was saying in her heart, ‘I am the one, and there is nobody else.’ How she has become an object of horror, A place for the wild animals to lie down! Everyone passing by her will whistle and shake his fist.” [End Quotation]
For information on how the destruction of Nineveh fulfilled Bible prophecy, he might see the article “Did You Know?” in the November 2021 issue of The Watchtower. By comparing what he learns from our publications with what he learns from encyclopedias and other respected sources, your child will have good reason to increase his faith in what the Bible says.
[Read scripture] Romans 12.2: And stop being molded by this system of things, but be transformed by making your mind over, so that you may prove to yourselves the good and acceptable and perfect will of God. [End of Read scripture]
Question 6. How can parents stimulate their child’s thinking ability? Give an example. (See also picture)
6. Stimulate your child’s thinking ability. Parents have different opportunities to engage in interesting conversations with their child about the Bible or about faith in God. These opportunities may come up during a visit to a museum, a botanical garden, or an exhibit at a branch office of Jehovah’s Witnesses. For example, when touring a museum, whether in person or virtually, you could draw your child’s attention to historical events or artifacts that can strengthen his conviction that the Bible is accurate. Does your child know that God’s personal name appears on a 3,000 year old slab of stone known as the Moabite Stone? The original Moabite Stone is on display in the Louvre Museum in Paris, France. Also, a replica of the Moabite Stone is on display at “The Bible and the Divine Name” exhibit located at the World Headquarters of Jehovah’s Witnesses in Warwick, New York. The Moabite Stone reveals that King Mesha of Moab rebelled against Israel. That is in accord with what the Bible says.
[Quotation] 2 Kings 3.4 and 5: Now Mesha the king of Moab was a sheep raiser, and he used to pay 100,000 lambs and 100,000 unshorn rams as tribute to the king of Israel. 5 As soon as Ahab died, the king of Moab revolted against the king of Israel. [End Quotation]
When your child sees with his own eyes evidence of the Bible’s truthfulness and accuracy, his faith will become stronger. Compare 2 Chronicles 9.6.
[Quotation] 2 Chronicles 9.6: But I did not put faith in the reports until I had come and had seen it with my own eyes. And look! I had not been told the half of your great wisdom. You have far surpassed the report that I heard. [End Quotation]
[Image Alt:] A father and his teenage daughter looking at a museum’s website on a computer. Caption: Can you stimulate your child’s thinking ability by pointing out things found in museums?
Two parts: Question 7 and 8a. What can we learn from the beauty and design we see in nature? Give an example. (See also picture)
Question 7 and 8b. What questions can help your child to strengthen his belief in a Creator?
7. Encourage your child to think about the natural world. While you are walking in the countryside or gardening, draw your child’s attention to the intriguing patterns that can be seen in nature. Why? These patterns give evidence of intelligence and wise design. Spiral patterns, for instance, have been studied by scientists for many years. Biophysicist Nicola Fameli explains that when you count the number of spirals found in nature, you discover a certain series of numbers. These make up what is called the Fibonacci sequence. Spiral patterns can be observed in many things, such as the shape of some galaxies, the pattern of nautilus shells, the leaves of plants, and the head of sunflowers.* [Footnote] For more information, see on jw.org the video The Wonders of Creation Reveal God’s Glory. Patterns. [End of footnote]
8. As your child learns more in science class at school, he will discover that laws govern the shape of many things. For example, each snowflake is formed according to geometric patterns known as fractals. Fractal patterns are also found in other things in nature. But who made the laws that result in these beautiful patterns? Who is behind the order and careful design we see in nature? The more your child thinks about such questions, the more likely it is that he will be able to develop a strong belief that God created all things. (Hebrews 3:4) At some point, you could ask him this question, “If God created us, would it not be reasonable to conclude that he has also given us moral guidance on how to be happy?” You can then point out that such valuable guidance is found in the Bible.
[Press play below for Video: The Wonders of Creation Reveal God's Glory. Patterns (4:53)]
[Image Alt:] Collage: Spiral patterns found in nature. 1. A galaxy. 2. A nautilus shell. 3. The leaves of a plant. 4. A sunflower.
Caption: What is behind the beauty and design that we find in nature?
Build Appreciation for the Bible’s Moral Standards
Question 9. What might cause a child to question the value of the Bible’s moral standards?
9. If your child questions the value of the Bible’s moral standards, try to discern any underlying reasons for the questions. Does he really disagree with the Bible’s moral standards, or is the problem simply that when speaking with others, he does not know how to defend his Christian values? In either case, you can help your child to appreciate the Bible’s moral standards by studying the Enjoy Life Forever! book.* [Footnote] If your child has already completed his study of the Enjoy Life Forever! book, you might review with him some lessons in sections 3 and 4, which discuss the Bible’s moral standards. [End of footnote]
Question 10. How can you help your child to think about his personal relationship with Jehovah?
10. Encourage your child to treasure his personal relationship with Jehovah. As you study the Bible with your child, try to draw him out by using the viewpoint questions and illustrations that are found in the Enjoy Life Forever! book.
[Quotation] Proverbs 20.5: The thoughts of a man’s heart are like deep waters, But the discerning man draws them out. [End Quotation]
For instance, lesson 8 compares Jehovah to a caring friend who gives us reminders that can protect and benefit us. After discussing 1 John 5:3, you might ask, “Knowing that Jehovah is such a good Friend, how should we view what he tells us to do?” That may seem to be a simple question, but asking it might help your child to view God’s laws as evidence of His love.
[Quotation] 1 John 5.3: For this is what the love of God means, that we observe his commandments; and yet his commandments are not burdensome, [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Isaiah 48.17 and 18: This is what Jehovah says, your Repurchaser, the Holy One of Israel: “I, Jehovah, am your God, The One teaching you to benefit yourself, The One guiding you in the way you should walk. 18 If only you would pay attention to my commandments! Then your peace would become just like a river And your righteousness like the waves of the sea. [End Quotation]
Question 11. How can you help your child to appreciate the value of Bible principles? (Proverbs 2.10 and 11)
11. Discuss how applying Bible principles benefits us. When you read the Bible or the daily text together, discuss how Bible principles have helped your family. For example, does your child see the benefits of being diligent and honest?
[Quotation] Hebrews 13.18: Keep praying for us, for we trust we have an honest conscience, as we wish to conduct ourselves honestly in all things. [End Quotation]
You might also emphasize how applying Bible principles protects us physically and emotionally.
[Quotation] Proverbs 14.29 and 30: The one who is slow to anger has great discernment, But the impatient one displays his foolishness. 30 A calm heart gives life to the body, But jealousy is rottenness to the bones. [End Quotation]
Discussing such principles will likely help your child to appreciate the Bible’s advice even more. Read Proverbs 2.10 and 11.
[Read scripture] Proverbs 2.10 and 11: When wisdom enters your heart And knowledge becomes pleasant to your soul, 11 Thinking ability will keep watch over you, And discernment will safeguard you, [End of Read scripture]
Question 12. How does one father help his son to appreciate the practical value of Bible principles?
12. Steve, a father in France, explains how he and his wife help their teenage son, Ethan, to see the love that is behind Jehovah’s laws: “We ask him such questions as, ‘Why does Jehovah require that we respect this principle? How does this show that he loves us? What would happen if you did not apply that principle?’” Conversations like these have helped Ethan to make Jehovah’s moral standards his own. Steve adds: “Our goal is to help Ethan to see that the Bible contains wisdom that is far superior to human wisdom.”
Question 13. How can parents train their child to apply Bible principles? Give an example.
13. Train your child to apply Bible principles. One opportunity to do so is when your child is assigned to read a book as part of a school project. The book may present the idea that characters who engage in immoral acts or who display outbursts of anger are worthy of imitation. You might encourage your child to think about the actions of the characters in the light of Bible principles.
[Quotation] Proverbs 22.24 and 25: Do not keep company with a hot-tempered man Or get involved with one disposed to rage, 25 So that you never learn his ways And ensnare yourself. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] 1 Corinthians 15.33: Do not be misled. Bad associations spoil useful habits. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Philippians 4.8: Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are of serious concern, whatever things are righteous, whatever things are chaste, whatever things are lovable, whatever things are well-spoken-of, whatever things are virtuous, and whatever things are praiseworthy, continue considering these things. [End Quotation]
That may equip him to give a witness to his teacher and fellow students during class discussions of the assigned material.
Question 14. What subject could be intimidating for a young Christian, and why?
14. Young Christians may at times lack the confidence to defend their beliefs. They may feel intimidated when the theory of evolution comes up in class. Why? Their teachers may present evolution as an established fact. If you are a parent, how can you help your child to have the confidence to stand firm in his beliefs?
Question 15. What can help a young Christian to be more confident in what he believes?
15. Help your child to become more confident in what he believes. Your child does not need to be ashamed because he knows the truth about creation.
[Quotation] 2 Timothy 1.8: So do not become ashamed either of the witness about our Lord or of me, a prisoner for his sake, but take your part in suffering adversity for the good news by relying on the power of God. [End Quotation]
Why not? The fact is that many scientists also understand that life did not appear spontaneously or by chance. They perceive intelligent and obvious design in the complexity of life. As a result, they do not accept the evolution theory that is commonly presented in schools around the globe. Your child can fortify his own convictions by reflecting on the reasons that persuaded other brothers and sisters to believe that life was created.* [Footnote] See the article “Why We Believe in a Creator” in Awake!, September 2006, and the brochure The Origin of Life. Five Questions Worth Asking. For additional examples, watch on jw.org the video series Viewpoints on the Origin of Life. [End of footnote]
Question 16. How can parents help a child to defend his belief in a Creator? (1 Peter 3.15) (See also picture)
16. Prepare your child to defend his belief in a Creator. (Read 1 Peter 3.15) You might find it useful to review together articles on jw.org in the series “Young People Ask. Creation or Evolution?” Then discuss the line of reasoning that your child feels is most persuasive for helping others understand the truth about the Creator. Remind him that he does not need to argue with his schoolmates. Encourage him to use simple logic and reasoning if some are open to a pleasant discussion. For example, a schoolmate might say: “I believe only what I can see, and I have never seen God.” A young Christian could respond: “Imagine that you are walking through a forest far from any human activity and you come upon a functioning well. What would you conclude? If the presence of a well gives clear evidence of intelligent life having made it, how much more so does the existence of the universe!”
[Read scripture] 1 Peter 3.15: But sanctify the Christ as Lord in your hearts, always ready to make a defense before everyone who demands of you a reason for the hope you have, but doing so with a mild temper and deep respect. [End of Read scripture]
[Image Alt:] Picture Description: A young Witness shows a schoolmate who is interested in drones a video from the series Was It Designed? Caption: Use logic and reasoning when speaking with schoolmates (See paragraphs 16 and 17)
Question 17. How can parents encourage their child to look for opportunities to share Bible truth with others? Illustrate.
17. Encourage your child to look for opportunities to share Bible truth with others.
[Quotation] Romans 10.10: For with the heart one exercises faith for righteousness, but with the mouth one makes public declaration for salvation. [End Quotation]
You might compare his efforts to talk about his faith with the efforts needed to play a musical instrument. At first, a learner practices tunes that are simple to play. In time, playing music becomes easier. Similarly, a young Christian might at first use a simple approach when sharing his faith with others. For example, he might ask a schoolmate: “Did you know that engineers often copy designs from nature? Let me show you a fascinating video.” After sharing a video from the series Was It Designed? he might say: “If a scientist gets credit for a design that already exists in nature, who deserves credit for the original?” Such a simple approach might be enough to stimulate a young person’s interest and leave him open to learning more.
[Image Alt:] Picture Description: A young Witness shows a schoolmate who is interested in drones a video from the series Was It Designed? Caption: Use logic and reasoning when speaking with schoolmates (See paragraphs 16 and 17)
Continue to Help Your Child Strengthen His Faith
Question 18. How can parents continue to strengthen their child’s faith in God?
18. We live in a world dominated by people who have no faith in Jehovah.
[Quotation] 2 Peter 3.3: First of all know this, that in the last days ridiculers will come with their ridicule, proceeding according to their own desires [End Quotation]
Therefore, parents, as you study the Bible with your child, encourage him to explore topics that will increase his respect for God’s Word and moral standards. Stimulate his thinking ability by pointing out marvelous facets of Jehovah’s creation. Help him to appreciate the astounding Bible prophecies that have already been fulfilled. And above all, pray with your child and for him. When you do, you can be assured that Jehovah will reward your efforts to help your child strengthen his faith.
[Quotation] 2 Chronicles 15.7: But you, be strong and do not become discouraged, for your activity will be rewarded.” [End Quotation]
[Box] How Can Parents Help Their Child ...
develop his convictions?
build appreciation for the Bible’s moral standards?
defend his belief in a Creator? [End of box]
Song 133 Worship Jehovah During Youth. Based on Ecclesiastes 12.1
1. Precious to God, we are daughters and sons,
Giving our strength as his faithful young ones.
Loving attention to us he will give,
Blessing our days for as long as we live.
2. Honoring parents who care for our lives
Helps us express what we’re feeling inside.
Then we find favor with God and with men,
Drawing us close to Jehovah, our Friend.
3. May we remember our God in our youth,
Growing each day in our love of the truth.
Giving our best to our God, we will bring
Joy to the heart of Jehovah, our King. [End of Song. Press Play below to play this song with Audio Description]
Secondary Articles in The Watchtower (4 Articles)
Life Story. I Have Never Stopped Learning
Life Story. I Have Never Stopped Learning
As Told by Joel Adams
I thank Jehovah for the privilege of having him as my “Grand Instructor.”
[Quotation] Isaiah 30.20: Though Jehovah will give you bread in the form of distress and water in the form of oppression, your Grand Instructor will no longer hide himself, and you will see your Grand Instructor with your own eyes. [End Quotation]
He teaches his worshippers by means of his Word, the Bible; his amazing creation; and his organization. He also uses fellow humans, our spiritual brothers and sisters, to help us. Though I am almost a century old, I am continuing to benefit from Jehovah’s instruction in all those ways. Let me explain how that is so.
I was born in 1927 in a small town near Chicago, Illinois, U.S.A. Father and Mother had five children, Jetha, Don, me, Karl, and Joy. We were all determined to serve Jehovah whole-souled. Jetha went to the second class of Gilead in 1943. Don, Karl, and Joy went to Bethel in Brooklyn, New York, in 1944, 1947, and 1951 respectively. Their fine example, as well as that of my parents, truly impressed me.
[Image:] Caption: With my family in 1948
Our Family Learns the Truth
Father and Mother were Bible readers who loved God and instilled that love in us children. Dad, however, had lost his respect for the churches after serving as a soldier in Europe during World War I. Mother, very thankful that he had come home alive, said to him: “Karl, let’s go to church like we used to.” Dad replied: “I’ll walk you there, but I am not going in.” She asked: “Why not?” He answered: “During the war, clergymen who belonged to the same religion but were on opposite sides of the conflict blessed the soldiers and their weapons! Was God on both sides?”
Later while Mother was at church, two of Jehovah’s Witnesses called at our house. They offered Father the two-volume Bible study aid Light, which discussed the book of Revelation. Dad was interested and accepted the offer. Once Mother saw the books, she began to read them. Then one day she saw a notice in the local newspaper inviting interested ones to a Bible study with the help of the Light books. She decided to go. On her arrival, an older woman answered the door. Holding up one of the books, Mother asked, “Are you studying this here?” The answer? “Yes, sweetheart, come in.” The next week Mother took us children with her, and after that we went regularly.
At one meeting, the conductor asked me to read Psalm 144.15, which says that those who worship Jehovah are happy.
[Quotation] Psalm 144.15: Happy is the people for whom it is this way! Happy is the people whose God is Jehovah! [End Quotation]
That text impressed me, as did two other verses, 1 Timothy 1.11, which says that Jehovah is “the happy God,” and Ephesians 5.1, which urges us to “become imitators of God.”
[Quotation] 1 Timothy 1.11: according to the glorious good news of the happy God, with which I was entrusted. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Ephesians 5.1: Therefore, become imitators of God, as beloved children, [End Quotation]
I concluded that I should take pleasure in what I could do for my Creator and thank him for the privilege, truths that became pivotal to my life.
The closest congregation was 32 kilometers (20 miles) away in Chicago. Nevertheless, we attended, and my knowledge of the Bible grew. I recall that on one occasion the conductor called on Jetha to comment. Listening to her, I thought: ‘I knew that. I could have put my hand up to comment.’ I began preparing and making my own comments. More important, I grew spiritually, right along with my siblings. I got baptized in 1941.
Learning From Jehovah at Conventions
I especially remember the 1942 convention in Cleveland, Ohio. Over 50 other locations in the United States were tied in by telephone. Our family stayed in tents in a nearby “trailer city” compound that our brothers arranged. World War II was then raging, and opposition to Jehovah’s Witnesses was growing. In the evening, I saw groups of brothers parking their cars with their lights facing out. All had agreed to have someone in each car stand guard throughout the night. If there was any sign of trouble, the brothers were to turn on their headlights to blind the attackers and to honk the horns. Others could then rush over to help. I thought, ‘Jehovah’s people are well-prepared for everything!’ Thus reassured, I slept soundly, and we had no trouble.
Years later, reflecting on that convention, I realized that my mother showed no hint of anxiety or fear. She placed full trust in Jehovah and his organization. I will never forget her fine example.
Not long before that convention, Mother enrolled as a regular pioneer. So she took special note of the talks discussing full-time service. On our way home, she said, “I would like to continue pioneering, but I cannot do that and take good care of our home.” She then asked if we would help. We said yes, so she assigned each of us one or two rooms to clean before breakfast. After we left for school, she would check that the house was in good order and then go out in the ministry. She was a busy woman, but she never neglected her children. When we came home for lunch and after school, she was always there for us. Some days after school, we went with her in the ministry, which helped us to understand what it meant to be a pioneer.
Starting Full-Time Service
I began pioneering at the age of 16. Although Father had not become a Witness yet, he was interested in how I was doing. One evening, I told him that despite my trying hard, I had not found anyone who wanted a Bible study. After a pause, I asked, “Would you be willing to study with me?” He reflected for a moment and replied, “I cannot think of a good reason not to.” Yes, my first Bible student was my father. What a privilege that was!
We studied the book “The Truth Shall Make You Free.” As our study progressed, I realized that Father was helping me to be a better student and teacher. For instance, one evening after we read a paragraph, he said: “I see what the book says. But how do you know that the book is right?” I was not prepared for that, so I said: “I cannot prove it to you now, but by our next study, I should have an answer.” And I did. I found verses that supported the point we had been discussing. Thereafter, I prepared better for our study, learning to do research. That contributed to my spiritual growth and that of my father. He applied what he was learning and got baptized in 1952.
New Goals Furthered My Education
I left home when I was 17. Jetha* [Footnote] See the life story of Jetha Sunal in The Watchtower of March 1, 2003, pages 23 through 29. [End of footnote] became a missionary, and Don, a Bethelite. Both loved their assignments, which greatly encouraged me. So I applied for Bethel and for Gilead School and left the matter in Jehovah’s hands. The result? I was invited to Bethel in 1946.
Over the years, I have had many different Bethel assignments, so I was able to learn many new things. Indeed, in my 75 years at Bethel, I was taught how to help make books and how to do accounting. I also learned the import and export trade. Above all, though, I enjoy the ongoing spiritual education that Bethel provides by means of morning worship and Bible-based lectures.
[Image:] Caption: Teaching a class of congregation elders
I also learned from my younger brother, Karl, who came to Bethel in 1947. He was an excellent student and teacher of the Bible. I once sought his help with a talk that I was assigned to give. I explained to Karl that I had gathered a lot of material but was struggling with how to use it. He led me to the solution with one question, “Joel, what is your theme?” I quickly got his point, just use the relevant material and put the rest aside. I never forgot that lesson.
To be happy at Bethel, we need to have a full share in the ministry, and that can result in encouraging experiences. One that I vividly recall began early one evening in the Bronx in New York City. A brother and I called on a woman who had previously accepted The Watchtower and Awake! We introduced ourselves, saying, “This evening we are helping people to learn upbuilding things from the Bible.” She replied, “If it’s about the Bible, come in.” We read and discussed several scriptures about God’s Kingdom and the coming new world. That obviously impressed her, for she invited several of her friends to join us the following week. She and her husband later became faithful servants of Jehovah.
Learning From My Marriage Mate
I had been looking for a marriage partner for some 10 years before I met my wife. What helped me to find a suitable wife? I gave prayerful thought to the question, ‘What do I want to do after we get married?’
Following the 1953 convention at Yankee Stadium, I met a sister named Mary Aniol. She and Jetha had been in the second class of Gilead, and Mary was my sister’s missionary companion. With much enthusiasm, Mary told me about her missionary assignments in the Caribbean and the Bible studies she had conducted over the years. As we got to know each other, we realized that we had been pursuing the same spiritual goals. Our love for each other grew, and we were married in April 1955. In many ways, Mary proved to be a gift from Jehovah and an example to imitate. She was happy in whatever assignment she was given. She worked hard, sincerely cared about others, and always kept Kingdom interests in first place.
[Quotation] Matthew 6.33: “Keep on, then, seeking first the Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these other things will be added to you. [End Quotation]
We served in the circuit work for three years, and in 1958, we were invited to Bethel as a couple.
[Image:] Caption: With Mary in the circuit work
I learned a lot from Mary. For example, early in our marriage, we decided to do our Bible reading together, covering about 15 verses at a time. After one of us read a section, we would comment on the scriptures and discuss how to apply them in our life. Mary often told me things she had learned at Gilead or in her missionary service. These discussions gave me insight and helped me to improve my talks and the personal encouragement I give to sisters.
[Quotation] Proverbs 25.11: Like apples of gold in silver carvings Is a word spoken at the right time. [End Quotation]
My dear Mary died in 2013. How I long to see her in the new world! In the meantime, I am determined to continue learning, trusting in Jehovah with all my heart.
[Quotation] Proverbs 3.5 and 6: Trust in Jehovah with all your heart, And do not rely on your own understanding. 6 In all your ways take notice of him, And he will make your paths straight. [End Quotation]
I find both comfort and joy in thinking about what Jehovah’s people will do in the new world. That certainly will include learning new things from and about our Grand Instructor! Yes, I cannot thank him enough for all that he has taught me so far and for his many expressions of undeserved kindness.
Questions From Readers
Questions From Readers
Who are “the chosen angels” mentioned at 1 Timothy 5.21?
The apostle Paul wrote to his fellow elder Timothy: “I solemnly charge you before God and Christ Jesus and the chosen angels to observe these instructions without any prejudice or partiality.” (1 Timothy 5.21)
First, we can discuss who can be ruled out as being these angels. Clearly, they are not those of the 144,000. When Paul wrote to Timothy, the resurrection of anointed Christians to heaven had not begun. The apostles and other anointed ones had not yet become spirit creatures, so “the chosen angels” could not refer to them.
[Quotation] 1 Corinthians 15.50 through 54: But I tell you this, brothers, that flesh and blood cannot inherit God’s Kingdom, nor does corruption inherit incorruption. 51 Look! I tell you a sacred secret: We will not all fall asleep in death, but we will all be changed, 52 in a moment, in the blink of an eye, during the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised up incorruptible, and we will be changed. 53 For this which is corruptible must put on incorruption, and this which is mortal must put on immortality. 54 But when this which is corruptible puts on incorruption and this which is mortal puts on immortality, then the saying that is written will take place: “Death is swallowed up forever.” [End Quotation]
[Quotation] 1 Thessalonians 4.13 through 17: Moreover, brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who are sleeping in death, so that you may not sorrow as the rest do who have no hope. 14 For if we have faith that Jesus died and rose again, so too God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep in death through Jesus. Thessalonians 4:15 For this is what we tell you by Jehovah’s word, that we the living who survive to the presence of the Lord will in no way precede those who have fallen asleep in death; 16 because the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a commanding call, with an archangel’s voice and with God’s trumpet, and those who are dead in union with Christ will rise first. 17 Afterward we the living who are surviving will, together with them, be caught away in clouds to meet the Lord in the air; and thus we will always be with the Lord. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] 1 John 3.2: Beloved ones, we are now children of God, but it has not yet been made manifest what we will be. We do know that when he is made manifest we will be like him, because we will see him just as he is. [End Quotation]
Also, “the chosen angels” could not refer to angels who had been disobedient at the time of the Flood. Those angels took sides with Satan and became demons, whom Jesus opposed.
[Quotation] Genesis 6.2: the sons of the true God began to notice that the daughters of men were beautiful. So they began taking as wives all whom they chose. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Luke 8.30 and 31: Jesus asked him: “What is your name?” He said: “Legion,” for many demons had entered into him. 31 And they kept pleading with him not to order them to go away into the abyss. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] 2 Peter 2.4: Certainly God did not refrain from punishing the angels who sinned, but threw them into Tartarus, putting them in chains of dense darkness to be reserved for judgment. [End Quotation]
In the future, they will be confined to an abyss for 1,000 years and thereafter destroyed along with the Devil.
[Quotation] Jude 6: And the angels who did not keep their original position but forsook their own proper dwelling place, he has reserved with eternal bonds in dense darkness for the judgment of the great day. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Revelation 20.1 through 3: And I saw an angel coming down out of heaven with the key of the abyss and a great chain in his hand. 2 He seized the dragon, the original serpent, who is the Devil and Satan, and bound him for 1,000 years. 3 And he hurled him into the abyss and shut it and sealed it over him, so that he would not mislead the nations anymore until the 1,000 years were ended. After this he must be released for a little while. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Revelation 20.10: And the Devil who was misleading them was hurled into the lake of fire and sulfur, where both the wild beast and the false prophet already were; and they will be tormented day and night forever and ever. [End Quotation]
“The chosen angels” whom Paul mentioned must have been angels in heaven who supported “God and Christ Jesus,” both of whom are mentioned in the same verse.
There are thousands upon thousands of faithful angels.
[Quotation] Hebrews 12.22 and 23: But you have approached a Mount Zion and a city of the living God, heavenly Jerusalem, and myriads of angels 23 in general assembly, and the congregation of the firstborn who have been enrolled in the heavens, and God the Judge of all, and the spiritual lives of righteous ones who have been made perfect, [End Quotation]
We need not think that every one of them has the same assignment at the same time.
[Quotation] Revelation 14.17 and 18: And still another angel emerged from the temple sanctuary that is in heaven, and he also had a sharp sickle. 18 And still another angel emerged from the altar, and he had authority over the fire. And he called out with a loud voice to the one who had the sharp sickle, saying: “Put your sharp sickle in and gather the clusters of the vine of the earth, for its grapes have become ripe.” [End Quotation]
Recall that at one point a single angel was tasked with destroying 185,000 armed Assyrians.
[Quotation] 2 Kings 19.35: On that very night the angel of Jehovah went out and struck down 185,000 men in the camp of the Assyrians. When people rose up early in the morning, they saw all the dead bodies. [End Quotation]
A number of angels might have been assigned to “collect out from [Jesus’] Kingdom all things that cause stumbling and people who practice lawlessness.”
[Quotation] Matthew 13.39 through 41: and the enemy who sowed them is the Devil. The harvest is a conclusion of a system of things, and the reapers are angels. 40 Therefore, just as the weeds are collected and burned with fire, so it will be in the conclusion of the system of things. 41 The Son of man will send his angels, and they will collect out from his Kingdom all things that cause stumbling and people who practice lawlessness, [End Quotation]
Others might “gather his chosen ones together” to heaven.
[Quotation] Matthew 24.31: And he will send out his angels with a great trumpet sound, and they will gather his chosen ones together from the four winds, from one extremity of the heavens to their other extremity. [End Quotation]
And still others are commanded ‘to guard us in all our ways.’
[Quotation] Psalm 91.11: For he will give his angels a command concerning you, To guard you in all your ways. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Matthew 18.10: See that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I tell you that their angels in heaven always look upon the face of my Father who is in heaven. [End Quotation]
compare Matthew 4.11; Luke 22.43.
[Quotation] Matthew 4.11: Then the Devil left him, and look! angels came and began to minister to him. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Luke 22.43: Then an angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him. [End Quotation]
“The chosen angels” mentioned at 1 Timothy 5.21 were likely angels who were assigned special duties in connection with God’s people. In the context, Paul gave wise counsel about elders, who merit respect from the congregation. For their part, elders should handle their responsibilities “without any prejudice or partiality” and should not make a decision or render judgment impetuously. A serious reason for them to follow Paul’s inspired advice is that they are acting “before God and Christ Jesus and the chosen angels.” It is thus clear that some angels are assigned duties in connection with the congregation, such as providing protection, overseeing the preaching, and reporting to Jehovah.
[Quotation] Matthew 18.10: See that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I tell you that their angels in heaven always look upon the face of my Father who is in heaven. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Revelation 14.6: And I saw another angel flying in midheaven, and he had everlasting good news to declare to those who dwell on the earth, to every nation and tribe and tongue and people. [End Quotation]
[Image:] An angel guiding a couple to a house in the field ministry. A man inside the house is praying.
Do You Remember?
Do You Remember?
Have you carefully read this year’s issues of The Watchtower? Well, see if you can answer the following questions:
What example does Jehovah set in how to treat women?
He treats them impartially, not favoring men over women. God listens to women, being interested in their feelings and concerns. And he trusts them to carry out his work. WatchTower 24.01, pages 15 and 16.
How can we apply Ephesians 5.7, which says: “Do not be sharers with them”?
The apostle Paul was warning us not to associate with people who would make it hard for us to stick to God’s standards. Such unwholesome association applies to those we spend time with in person as well as those we interact with on social media. WatchTower 24.03, pages 22 and 23.
We need to guard against what sorts of false stories?
We need to beware of unverified stories from well-meaning friends, unsolicited emails from people we do not know, and feigned interest in the truth by apostates. WatchTower 24.04, page 12.
What do we know and what do we not know about how Jehovah will judge King Solomon as well as those who died in Sodom and Gomorrah and in the Flood?
We do not know for sure that Jehovah has assigned them to eternal destruction. However, we do know that he has all the facts and has great mercy. WatchTower 24.05, pages 3 and 4.
God’s being “the Rock” assures us of what?
[Quotation] Deuteronomy 32:4: The Rock, perfect is his activity, For all his ways are justice. A God of faithfulness who is never unjust; Righteous and upright is he. [End Quotation]
We can seek refuge in Jehovah. He is reliable, always keeping his promises. And he is stable, staying true to his personality and purposes. WatchTower 24.06, pages 26 through 28.
What can help you to adjust to a new congregation?
Rely on Jehovah, who will help you as he has helped his servants in the past. Avoid making comparisons with your former congregation. Get involved with the new congregation, and strive to develop new friendships. WatchTower 24.07, pages 26 through 28.
What lessons are conveyed in the three parables found in Matthew chapter 25?
The parable of the sheep and the goats emphasizes being faithful and loyal. The parable of the discreet and the foolish virgins stresses being prepared and vigilant. And the parable of the talents highlights the importance of being industrious and diligent. WatchTower 24.09, pages 20 through 24.
How tall was the porch of Solomon’s temple?
[Quotation] 2 Chronicles 3.4: The porch in front was 20 cubits long, corresponding to the width of the house, and its height was 120; and he overlaid it inside with pure gold. [End Quotation]
At 2 Chronicles 3.4, some ancient manuscripts read “120 cubits,” making the porch 53 meters (175 feet) high. But other authoritative texts read “20 cubits,” making it nine meters (30 feet) tall. The latter seems to fit with the thickness of the temple’s walls. WatchTower 24.10, page 31.
What does it mean for a ministerial servant to be ‘a husband of one wife’?
[Quotation] 1 Timothy 3.12: Let ministerial servants be husbands of one wife, presiding in a fine manner over their children and their own households. [End Quotation]
It means that he is married to only one woman and should not be committing sexual immorality. Further, he should not give inappropriate attention to other women. WatchTower 24.11, page 19.
Why can we say that John 6.53 was not a pattern for the Lord’s Evening Meal?
John 6.53 speaks of the need to eat Jesus’ flesh and drink his blood.
[Quotation] John 6:53: So Jesus said to them: “Most truly I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you have no life in yourselves. [End Quotation]
Jesus spoke these words in 32 C.E., in Galilee, to Jews who still needed to put faith in him. However, the Lord’s Evening Meal was instituted a year later in Jerusalem. Jesus there spoke to ones with whom he would reign in heaven. WatchTower 24.12, pages 10 and 11.
Study Project. Faithful People Pay Their Vows
Study Project. Faithful People Pay Their Vows
Read Judges 11.30 through 40 to learn from the account of Jephthah and his daughter about paying vows.
[Read scripture] Judges 11.30 through 40: Then Jephthah made a vow to Jehovah and said: “If you give the Ammonites into my hand, 31 then whoever comes out of the door of my house to meet me when I return in peace from the Ammonites will become Jehovah’s, and I will offer that one up as a burnt offering.” 32 So Jephthah went to fight against the Ammonites, and Jehovah gave them into his hand. 33 He struck them down with a very great slaughter from Aroer all the way to Minnith, 20 cities, and as far as Abel-keramim. Thus the Ammonites were subdued before the Israelites. 34 Finally Jephthah came to his home in Mizpah, and look! his daughter was coming out to meet him, playing the tambourine and dancing! Now she was his one and only child. Besides her, he had neither son nor daughter. 35 When he saw her, he ripped his garments and said: “Oh no, my daughter! You have broken my heart, for you have become the one I have banished. Now I have opened my mouth to Jehovah, and I am unable to turn back.” 36 But she said to him: “My father, if you have opened your mouth to Jehovah, do to me as you have promised, since Jehovah has executed vengeance for you upon your enemies, the Ammonites.” 37 She then said to her father: “Let this be done for me: Let me be alone for two months, and let me go away into the mountains, and let me weep over my virginity with my female companions.” 38 At this he said: “Go!” So he sent her away for two months, and she went to the mountains with her companions to weep over her virginity. 39 At the end of two months, she returned to her father, after which he carried out the vow he had made regarding her. She never had relations with a man. And it became a custom in Israel: 40 From year to year, the young women of Israel would go to give commendation to the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite four days in the year. [End of Read scripture]
Analyze the context. How did faithful Israelites view vows made to Jehovah?
[Quotation] Numbers 30.2: If a man makes a vow to Jehovah or swears an oath to impose on himself a vow of abstinence, he must not violate his word. He should do everything he vowed he would do. [End Quotation]
How did Jephthah and his daughter show that they had faith in Jehovah?
[Quotation] Judges 11.9 through 11: So Jephthah said to the elders of Gilead: “If you bring me back to fight against the Ammonites and Jehovah defeats them for me, then I will indeed become your leader!” 10 The elders of Gilead said to Jephthah: “Let Jehovah be the witness between us if we do not do as you say.” 11 So Jephthah went with the elders of Gilead, and the people made him their leader and commander. And Jephthah repeated all his words before Jehovah in Mizpah. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Judges 11.19 through 24: “‘After that Israel sent messengers to Sihon king of the Amorites, king of Heshbon, and Israel said to him: “Please let us pass through your land to our own place.” 20 But Sihon did not trust Israel to cross through his territory, so Sihon gathered all his people together and encamped in Jahaz and fought against Israel. 21 At this Jehovah the God of Israel gave Sihon and all his people into Israel’s hand, so that they defeated them and Israel took possession of all the land of the Amorites, the inhabitants of that land. 22 Thus they took possession of all the territory of the Amorites from the Arnon to the Jabbok and from the wilderness to the Jordan. 23 “‘It was Jehovah the God of Israel who drove out the Amorites from before his people Israel, and now would you drive them out? 24 Do you not possess whatever your god Chemosh gives you to possess? So everyone whom Jehovah our God has driven out from before us is the one we will drive out. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Judges 11.36: But she said to him: “My father, if you have opened your mouth to Jehovah, do to me as you have promised, since Jehovah has executed vengeance for you upon your enemies, the Ammonites.” [End Quotation]
Dig deeper. What did Jephthah evidently have in mind when he made his vow?
[WatchTower excerpt: 2016.04 page 7 paragraph 12] The sacrificing of humans is something detestable to Jehovah. Thus, it is clear that Jephthah did not intend to sacrifice anyone literally.
[Quotation] Deuteronomy 18.9 and 10: “When you have entered into the land that Jehovah your God is giving you, you must not learn to imitate the detestable practices of those nations. 10 There should not be found in you anyone who makes his son or his daughter pass through the fire, anyone who employs divination, anyone practicing magic, anyone who looks for omens, a sorcerer, [End Quotation]
Under the Mosaic Law, a burnt offering was given entirely to Jehovah, so Jephthah evidently meant that he would devote the person to the exclusive service of God. This promise implied permanent service at the tabernacle. Jehovah accepted Jephthah’s terms and blessed him with a resounding victory, striking and subduing the enemy.
[Quotation] Judges 11.32 and 33: So Jephthah went to fight against the Ammonites, and Jehovah gave them into his hand. 33 He struck them down with a very great slaughter from Aroer all the way to Minnith, 20 cities, and as far as Abel-keramim. Thus the Ammonites were subdued before the Israelites. [End Quotation]
But who would be the person given as “a burnt offering” to God? [End of WatchTower excerpt]
What sacrifices did Jephthah and his daughter make to fulfill his vow?
[WatchTower excerpt: 2016.04 pages 7 and 8, paragraph 14 through 16]
14 Again, divine principles must have guided Jephthah to make the right choice. Perhaps he recalled the words of Exodus 23.19, which instructed God’s people to be willing to give their best to Jehovah.
[Quotation] Exodus 23.19: “You are to bring the best of the first ripe fruits of your ground to the house of Jehovah your God. “You must not boil a young goat in its mother’s milk. [End Quotation]
The Law also indicated that once a man made a vow, fulfillment was compulsory. It states: “If a man makes a vow to Jehovah . . . , he must not violate his word. He should do everything he vowed he would do.”
[Quotation] Numbers 30.2: If a man makes a vow to Jehovah or swears an oath to impose on himself a vow of abstinence, he must not violate his word. He should do everything he vowed he would do. [End Quotation]
Like faithful Hannah, who was probably a contemporary of his, Jephthah would be called on to live up to his vow, knowing what it meant for his own future and that of his daughter. He had no other child; his daughter was his only hope for a descendant, someone to carry on his name and his inheritance in Israel.
[Quotation] Judges 11.34: Finally Jephthah came to his home in Mizpah, and look! his daughter was coming out to meet him, playing the tambourine and dancing! Now she was his one and only child. Besides her, he had neither son nor daughter. [End Quotation]
Nevertheless, Judges 11:35 concludes with Jephthah saying: “I have opened my mouth to Jehovah, and I am unable to turn back.” His faithfulness even at great personal cost brought him God’s approval and blessing. Would you have made the same choice? 15. When we dedicated our lives to Jehovah, we vowed that we would do his will unreservedly. We knew that living up to that promise would require self-sacrifice. However, our willingness is especially put to the test when we are asked to do things that are not initially to our liking. When we make such sacrifices and serve God in a way that takes us out of our comfort zone, we prove ourselves faithful. The resulting blessings are always far greater than any sacrifices we may make, painful as they may be.
[Quotation] Malachi 3.10: Bring the entire tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in my house; and test me out, please, in this regard,” Jehovah of armies says, “to see whether I will not open to you the floodgates of the heavens and pour out on you a blessing until there is nothing lacking.” [End Quotation]
But what about Jephthah’s daughter? 16. It could not have been easy for Jephthah’s daughter to accept the consequences of her father’s vow. This was different from Hannah’s vow, by which she dedicated her son Samuel to serve at the tabernacle as a Nazirite.
[Quotation] 1 Samuel 1.11: And she made this vow: “O Jehovah of armies, if you look upon the affliction of your servant and remember me and you do not forget your servant and give to your servant a male child, I will give him to Jehovah all the days of his life, and no razor will touch his head.” [End Quotation]
A Nazirite was able to marry and have a family. But Jephthah’s daughter was to be a whole “burnt offering”; she would have to forgo such joys.
[Quotation] Judges 11.37 through 40: She then said to her father: “Let this be done for me: Let me be alone for two months, and let me go away into the mountains, and let me weep over my virginity with my female companions.” 38 At this he said: “Go!” So he sent her away for two months, and she went to the mountains with her companions to weep over her virginity. 39 At the end of two months, she returned to her father, after which he carried out the vow he had made regarding her. She never had relations with a man. And it became a custom in Israel: 40 From year to year, the young women of Israel would go to give commendation to the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite four days in the year. [End Quotation]
As the daughter of the victorious chief and leader in Israel, she might have been given in marriage to the best man in the land. But now she was to become a humble servant at the tabernacle. How did the young woman respond? She showed that she put Jehovah’s service first by saying: “My father, if you have opened your mouth to Jehovah, do to me as you have promised.”
[Quotation] Judges 11.36: But she said to him: “My father, if you have opened your mouth to Jehovah, do to me as you have promised, since Jehovah has executed vengeance for you upon your enemies, the Ammonites.” [End Quotation]
She sacrificed her natural desires for a husband and children in order to promote true worship. How might we imitate her self-sacrificing attitude? [End of WatchTower excerpt]
What sort of vows might Christians make today?—w17.04 5-8 paragraphs 10-19.
[WatchTower excerpt: 2017.04 pages 5 through 8 paragraphs 10 through 19] The most important vow that a Christian can make is the one with which he dedicates his life to Jehovah. Why so? Because, in private prayer, he solemnly promises Jehovah that he will use his life to serve God forever, no matter what. To use Jesus’ words, a person thus ‘disowns himself,’ gives up all rights to himself, and vows to put God’s will above everything else in his life.
[Quotation] Matthew 16.24: Then Jesus said to his disciples: “If anyone wants to come after me, let him disown himself and pick up his torture stake and keep following me. [End Quotation]
From that day forward, ‘he belongs to Jehovah.’
[Quotation] Romans 14.8: For if we live, we live to Jehovah, and if we die, we die to Jehovah. So both if we live and if we die, we belong to Jehovah. [End Quotation]
Anyone who makes a dedication vow should take it very seriously, just as did the psalmist who spoke of the vows he had made to God: “With what will I repay Jehovah for all the good he has done for me? I will pay my vows to Jehovah in the presence of all his people.”
[Quotation] Psalm 116.12: With what will I repay Jehovah For all the good he has done for me? [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Psalm 116.14: I will pay my vows to Jehovah In the presence of all his people. [End Quotation]
11. Have you dedicated your life to Jehovah and symbolized your dedication by water baptism? If so, that is wonderful! Recall that on your baptism day, before eyewitnesses, you were asked whether you had dedicated yourself to Jehovah and understood that “your dedication and baptism identify you as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses in association with God’s spirit-directed organization.” Your affirmative answers served as a public declaration of your unreserved dedication and showed that you were qualified for baptism as an ordained minister of Jehovah. You must have made Jehovah very happy! 12. Baptism is just the beginning, though. Thereafter, we want to continue living up to our dedication in faithful service to God. Hence, we might ask ourselves: ‘How has my spiritual life progressed since my baptism? Am I continuing to serve Jehovah wholeheartedly?
[Quotation] Colossians 3.23: Whatever you are doing, work at it whole-souled as for Jehovah, and not for men, [End Quotation]
Am I praying, reading God’s Word, attending congregation meetings, and sharing in the ministry as often as possible? Or has there been some lessening of these spiritual activities?’ The apostle Peter explained that we can avoid becoming inactive in our service if we keep supplying to our faith knowledge, endurance, and godly devotion.
[Quotation] 2 Peter 1.5 through 8: For this very reason, put forth all earnest effort to supply to your faith virtue, to your virtue knowledge, 6 to your knowledge self-control, to your self-control endurance, to your endurance godly devotion, 7 to your godly devotion brotherly affection, to your brotherly affection love. 8 For if these things exist in you and overflow, they will prevent you from being either inactive or unfruitful regarding the accurate knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. [End Quotation]
13. There is no way to undo a dedication vow, taking back what we promised God. If a person tires of serving Jehovah or of living a Christian way of life, he cannot claim that he was never really dedicated and that his baptism was invalid.* [Footnote] Considering the steps that the elders take to be sure that a person is qualified for baptism, it would be extremely rare for anyone’s baptism to be invalid. [End of Footnote] To all intents and purposes, he presented himself as one who was wholly dedicated to God. He will be accountable before Jehovah and the congregation for any serious sins that he may commit.
[Quotation] Romans 14.12: So, then, each of us will render an account for himself to God. [End Quotation]
May it never be said of us that ‘we left the love we had at first.’
[Quotation] Revelation 2.4: Nevertheless, I hold this against you, that you have left the love you had at first. [End Quotation]
Instead, we want Jesus to be able to say of us: “I know your deeds, and your love and faith and ministry and endurance, and that your deeds of late are more than those you did at first.” (Revelation 2.19) May we zealously continue to live up to our dedication vow, to Jehovah’s delight.
YOUR MARRIAGE VOW
14. The second most important vow that a person can make is the marriage vow. Why so? Because marriage is sacred. Before God and eyewitnesses, the bride and groom exchange their marriage vows. They usually promise that they will love, cherish, and respect each other and that they will do so “for as long as [they] both shall live together on earth according to God’s marital arrangement.” Others may not have said these exact words, but they still made a vow before God. They are then pronounced husband and wife, and their marriage is meant to be a lifelong bond.
[Quotation] Genesis 2.24: That is why a man will leave his father and his mother and he will stick to his wife, and they will become one flesh. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] 1 Corinthians 7.39: A wife is bound as long as her husband is alive. But if her husband should fall asleep in death, she is free to be married to whomever she wants, only in the Lord. [End Quotation]
“Therefore,” to use Jesus’ words, “what God has yoked together, let no man put apart”, neither the husband nor the wife nor anyone else. Thus, couples entering marriage must have the view that divorce is not an option.
[Quotation] Mark 10.9: Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.” [End Quotation]
15. Of course, there has never been a perfect marriage. Each marriage is made up of two imperfect people. That is why the Bible says that married people “will have tribulation” at times.
[Quotation] 1 Corinthians 7.28: But even if you did marry, you would commit no sin. And if a virgin married, such a person would commit no sin. However, those who do will have tribulation in their flesh. But I am trying to spare you. [End Quotation]
Sad to say, many individuals in this world have a casual attitude toward marriage. When the relationship becomes strained, they just give up and walk out on their marriage mate. That, however, is not the Christian way. Breaking one’s marriage vow is equivalent to lying to God, and God hates liars!
[Quotation] Leviticus 19.12: You must not swear to a lie in my name and thus profane the name of your God. I am Jehovah. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Proverbs 6.16 through 19: There are six things that Jehovah hates;Yes, seven things that he detests: 17 Haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, 18 A heart plotting wicked schemes, and feet that run quickly to evil, 19 A false witness who lies with every breath,And anyone sowing contentions among brothers. [End Quotation]
The apostle Paul wrote: “Are you bound to a wife? Stop seeking a release.”
[Quotation] 1 Corinthians 7.27: Are you bound to a wife? Stop seeking a release. Are you freed from a wife? Stop seeking a wife. [End Quotation]
Paul could say that because he knew that Jehovah also hates a treacherous divorce.
[Quotation] Malachi 2.13 through 16: “And there is another thing that you do, which results in covering the altar of Jehovah with tears and with weeping and sighing, so that he no longer pays attention to your gift offering or looks favorably on anything from your hand. 14 And you say, ‘For what reason?’ It is because Jehovah has acted as a witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously, although she is your partner and your wife by covenant. 15 But there was one who did not do it, for he had what remained of the spirit. And what was that one seeking? The offspring of God. So guard yourselves respecting your spirit, and do not deal treacherously with the wife of your youth. 16 For I hate divorce,” says Jehovah the God of Israel, “and the one who covers his garment with violence,” says Jehovah of armies. “And guard yourselves respecting your spirit, and you must not deal treacherously. [End Quotation]
16. Jesus taught that the only Scriptural ground for dissolving a marriage vow is when an innocent mate chooses not to forgive an adulterous partner.
[Quotation] Matthew 19.9: I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of sexual immorality, and marries another commits adultery.” [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Hebrews 13.4: Let marriage be honorable among all, and let the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers. [End Quotation]
What, then, about separating from one’s marriage mate? The Bible is clear on this too.
[Quotation] 1 Corinthians 7.10 and 11: To the married people I give instructions, not I but the Lord, that a wife should not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does separate, let her remain unmarried or else be reconciled with her husband; and a husband should not leave his wife. [End Quotation]
The Bible does not set out grounds for marital separation. However, some married Christians have viewed certain situations as a reason for separation, such as the extreme endangerment of one’s life or spirituality by an abusive or apostate spouse. 17. When individuals approach congregation elders for advice about marital problems, the elders do well to ask whether the couple have recently watched the video What Is True Love? and studied together the brochure Your Family Can Be Happy. Why? Because these tools highlight the godly principles that have helped many to strengthen their marriage. One couple said: “Since we have been studying this brochure, our marriage has been happier than ever.” A wife said of her 22-year-long marriage that was at the point of a breakup: “We are both baptized, but we were on two different pages emotionally. The video came right on time! We are doing much better now as a couple.” Are you married? By all means, apply Jehovah’s principles in your marriage. Doing so will help you to live up to your marriage vow, happily!
THE VOW OF SPECIAL FULL-TIME SERVANTS
18. Did you realize what else Jephthah and Hannah had in common? Their respective vows resulted in Jephthah’s daughter and Hannah’s son being devoted to special, sacred service at the tabernacle. That meant a most satisfying way of life. Today, many Christian parents have encouraged their children to take up the full-time ministry and to center their lives on their service to God. Those who have done so are worthy of sincere commendation.
[Quotation] Judges 11.40: From year to year, the young women of Israel would go to give commendation to the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite four days in the year. [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Psalm 110.3: Your people will offer themselves willingly on the day of your military force. In splendid holiness, from the womb of the dawn, You have your company of young men just like dewdrops. [End Quotation]
19. Currently, there are some 67,000 members of the Worldwide Order of Special Full-Time Servants of Jehovah’s Witnesses. Some perform Bethel service, others engage in construction or in circuit work, serve as field instructors or special pioneers or missionaries or as Assembly Hall or Bible school facility servants. They are all bound by a “Vow of Obedience and Poverty,” with which they agree to do whatever is assigned to them in the advancement of Kingdom interests, to live a simple lifestyle, and to abstain from secular employment without permission. It is not the people but their assignments that are viewed as special. They realize the seriousness of humbly living up to their solemn vow for as long as they remain in special full-time service. [End of WatchTower excerpt]
Identify the lessons. Ask yourself:
‘What can help me to keep my vow of dedication?’
[WatchTower excerpt: 2020.03 page 13 paragraph 20] Stay close to your congregation. As a baptized Christian, you are now part of an “association of brothers.”
[Quotation] 1 Peter 2.17: Honor men of all sorts, have love for the whole association of brothers, be in fear of God, honor the king. [End Quotation]
Your brothers and sisters in the congregation are your spiritual family. By regularly attending the meetings, you will strengthen your bond with them. Read God’s Word and meditate on it every day.
[Quotation] Psalm 1.1 and 2: Happy is the man who does not walk according to the advice of the wicked And does not stand on the path of sinners And does not sit in the seat of scoffers. 2 But his delight is in the law of Jehovah, And he reads His law in an undertone day and night. [End Quotation]
After reading a portion of the Bible, take some time to think deeply about what you have read. Then the words will reach your heart. “Pray continually.”
[Quotation] Matthew 26:41: Keep on the watch and pray continually, so that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit, of course, is eager, but the flesh is weak.” [End Quotation]
Your sincere prayers will draw you closer to Jehovah. “Keep on . . . seeking first the Kingdom.”
[Quotation] Matthew 6.33: “Keep on, then, seeking first the Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these other things will be added to you. [End Quotation]
You can do that by making the preaching work a priority in your life. By sharing regularly in the ministry, you will keep your faith strong, and you may help others to get on the road to everlasting life.
[Quotation] 1 Timothy 4.16: Pay constant attention to yourself and to your teaching. Persevere in these things, for by doing this you will save both yourself and those who listen to you. [End Quotation] [End of WatchTower excerpt]
‘What sacrifices can I make to serve Jehovah more fully?’
‘How can I strengthen my commitment to fulfill my marriage vow?’
[Quotation] Matthew 19.5 and 6: and said: ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh’? 6 So that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.” [End Quotation]
[Quotation] Ephesians 5.28 through 33: In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. A man who loves his wife loves himself, 29 for no man ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cherishes it, just as the Christ does the congregation, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and he will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh.” 32 This sacred secret is great. Now I am speaking about Christ and the congregation. 33 Nevertheless, each one of you must love his wife as he does himself; on the other hand, the wife should have deep respect for her husband. [End Quotation]